stupid ex husband
sooo, my girlfriend is getting married and invited her ex husband who asked if he could bring a date. so he is bringing his current girl which happens to be the "whore" he cheated on his ex wife with. sounds like "Desperate Housewives". what would you do if you were the ex getting married???
kelleosbff
people need to grow up and move on. it seems like your girlfriend is if she can invite her ex husband and his girlfriend. why call her a 'whore' he is at fault for cheating as well. do you know her personally?
Shannon P. 
A Whore wow I would like to see her tax statement . even if she is a hoe she is still a person . seems like the one who was getting married was not ready to let go of her ex who should not have been at the wedding eather and he sounds like he was not ready to let go also ,
CagedAnimal why did she invite him in the 1st place if it is such an issue? did she really think he wouldn't bring his current squeeze? if it bothers HER so much she can just un-invite him. it's HER wedding...
Lori...since '73 I'm with Lori why would she even invite him then. Since she did invite him who cares if he brings his fling she is getting married to another man so who cares move on.
Nosila I hope its an open bar wedding. Things could get really spectatular if there is enough alcohol involved!
funnygirl thanks for your opinions. it was almost 20 yrs ago and i did know her personally. my friend does not really care. she invited her ex because of her 2 kids plus they are still friendly. she just found him bringing the girl who he cheated with, while all 3 worked together and she was pregnant, kind of "funny". i was just wondering what people thought.
Kelleo whats really going on ? Do you have the hots for her ex ? Why are you so concerned ? Its not your wedding is it ? How much are you putting in the envelope ?
BrownEyesGuy Wow it sounds like the makings for something that would be on Jerry Springer. Can I come?
M & K It was almost twenty years ago and the ex-husband and his previous mistress are still dating and living separately? I say the ex-husband is probably the lowest person on the "stupid" scale in this whole scenario, lol.
ianimal 
Firefly ok...the ex shouldn't bring the woman he cheated. The "mistress" shouldn't go even if asked to go and if she goes she has some balls
Mommyof2 we need forrest gump stupid stupid Question
KELLEOSBFF
NEXT TIME put up all the info
oh my gosh. i seriously just posted my "stupid" question for fun. i almost never go on here and i could really care less about the whole scenario. i almost never even see or talk to these two people. we used to be close but time and location changed that. sooo having said that.....
Popeye, i do not have the hots for my friends ex.
Lori, it doesn't bother her, as i said, that is why she invited him. because she is nice and she is ready to be married.
i seriously thought it was kind of funny 20 yrs. later and just wanted to see what people thought.
kelleo does post here quite often and as her bff maybe you shouldn't post meaningless questions that are true or otherwise. It now kind of paints a picture - IMHO if ya know what I mean.
Ya know what would be REALLY funny? If the groom got wasted and banged the ex-husband's former mistress/ current girlfriend in a linen closet. THAT would be Springer-worthy, LOL.
did anyone ever think that maybe the ex wife is friends with her ex husband/girlfriend? no one knows WHAT goes on behind closed doors.. its her wedding, its her decision. life definitely goes on! :) let her do what she wants.. you are not in her shoes
darlugh Why post such a question at all. Not a topic of interest. Why post a answer so such a meaning less post. You all need to get a good book to read.
It's "COULDN'T" care less. If you could care less, than that means you care at least a little bit.
My vote: stupid question because the tone of the question implies, IMO, that the OP simply wanted people to agree with her.
ianimal - I think this guy maybe smarter than we think...1) convinced a woman that it's better to be single than married & 2) we all know certain things stop when you get married ;-)
emaxxman I just think it's funny that after 20 years, she still refers to the other woman as the whore..time to let it go.
Bessie If she really is a "whore" this guy must be broke after 20 years of service...
LOL, Lori... whores who get paid by the hour for actual service are a hell of a lot cheaper than wives who are "always on the clock" whether they're engaging in sexual activity or not.
Yes, I said "CLOCK" (-;
OMG...I can be anyone, can't I? I mean all you have to do is change your little display name and you people go crazy...LOL
kelle,
"go crazy"? Read a few threads...this is par for the course on HL.
"I can be anyone". So are you saying that you are kelleo22 and NOT kellesbff? Because honestly you BOTH post trivial nonsense...
all i have to say is that all of "you" quite judgmental!!!! i wrote one post that i really don't think was that big a deal. i don't know what IMHO, IMO or OP stands for but , Firely, Lori...73' and Emaxxman, i do know FU stands for. don't you dare judge Kelleo22 for ANYTHING that i have written. which by the way is a true story!!! and i could care, oops i mean COULDN"T care less what you all think wether or not you agree with me!!! but i just had to reply and defend the rep of kelleo22. who none of you know personally! any it is true, anybody could change their display name on here.
CJ The next time anyone asks what was the most ridiculous topic on HL ever, this one has to go to the top of the list. I'm just sitting here shaking my head.
cbel REALLY! this is the stupidest topic ever on this ridiculous forum. nobody asked. it wasn't meant to enlighten, educate or enrich anyone's life!!!! it was just posed because my other friend and i were wondering if we were the only people that thought the ex husband was a little nervy or maybe just stupid. all i have to say about the comments given are unbelievable!!!! give me a break!!!!!!!!
Holy crap...just read this all...Lori, I didn't realize you had something against my thoughts or posts?? I mean, this is the not the first time you've said something about my comments, I just wonder, why the animosity?? This is a public forum right??
PSS i think maybe mr baci the rabbit or turkey burgers might a little stupider if we are actually rating the topics on the stupid scale!
kelleo22,
I tend to not sugar-coat things. If I think something is stupid, I say so. I do comment on many of your posts...If the shoe fits, wear it. As for your thoughts...do you REALLY put any thought into them? If often doesn't seem like it, but again that's JMO.
kelleosbff,
If you're going to play on a public forum you need to toughen up a little. As for your thread, it is definitely stupider (nice grasp of grammar) than Mr. Baci & Turkey Burgers...
I can see it now...20 years later..."Hey Kelle, remember the HL Forum", haha
kelleo56ebff89,
; why,.& you be all offended^.
Holy smoke! Where did you learn how to punctuate?
Ian and Brown Eyes, very disappointed in your view of wives, kind of disrespectful to the woman you love :(
MCR 90% of this topic is 1/2 mental ! =)
Not sure how to answer the initial question, but it seems a bit awkward to me, since I/we were asked for an opinion/answer in the first place.
I do not know how I'd react to someone flat out telling me to toughen up a bit or how stupid or meaningless me or my posts are IN PERSON, however that's not the case and none of it is directed at me for the moment.
I say, everyone smile for a few minutes and remember its only a topic of discussion that at least is not or hopefully is not relevant to anyone here but the post maker and his/her friend involved. So maybe be relieved you are not part of this "Days of our Life" type of topic...
Also, excuse me if this wasnt proofread for spelling or any other grammatical errors beforehand!
And please answer Popeyes questions, I personally think some of the answers could be even more entertaining...
=)
CARNi i seriously thought it was kind of funny 20 yrs. later and just wanted to see what people thought.
kelleosbff
Mar 9, 10 8:17 am
Well...Now you know what people thought! Don't ask if you really don't want to know...
The firestorm of attitude from some of you is what is really the problem. Tougher skin or not, we are taught (some of us, at least) at a young age to say nice things, or don't say anything at all. By clerical definition, this is a complete bullying circumstance. Lori, if someone was speaking to your son this way in school, how would you react? If someone was calling your child "stupid" or what he/she said "stupid" how would you react? I think this has completely gone overboard. Not just sticking up for my bff, but public forums are typically tools for people to ask, reach out, receive info, etc. Not to be bullied, name called, judged on grammer, or attacked. Again, tougher skin or not, everyone is a person, everyone (even those who are stupider, haha) has thoughts, and opinions. Would you tell a mentally handicapped person that they are stupid?? How, in fact, do you not know that my bff may be mentally handicapped?!?!?!? And what do my posts have to do with our being friends??? And 20 years later (in fact not 20 years later, maybe tomorrow) we won't be laughing about what was posted on HL forum, but talking how insensitive and judgemental people can really be. It's one thing to be a jerk and write terrible things on a forum, its another to pick on people and be mean. My bff wrote nothing wrong, just asked how someone would feel in her Jerry Springer situation. She received some general, pleasant comments, some funny, but the majority were attacking her intelligence, and THEREFORE my intelligence because I know her?!?!? Come on!
And I love Mr Baci and Turkey burgers too:)
I second that Bessie but I am SURE that neither of the guys meant it but were just (trying) to be funny. However guys just in case the ladies read this you might want to have a Coach bag waiting in the wings or well you know the or part....
Tracy Honestly who cares, its not your business.
First - who the poster really is, I do know who the poster is and it is not Kelleo22
Second - if the bride wants to invite her ex its her business, you arent paying for the wedding. Its her wedding. She could have invited him without a guest.
Third if your her true bff, you will stand by her side and behind her decisions
Just Asking LMAO@Tracy
Good call!
kelle, kelle, kelle...
1) there is a big difference between an 11 yr old boy and a grown woman (at least physically). In other aspects the difference may not be much after all...
2) I would never tell a child or someone known to be mentally handicapped that they are stupid, because there are no stupid children or handicapped persons...
3) my assumptions on YOUR intelligence are based solely on YOUR posts, so you can't blame your bff for that...
Was I mean? Yes. Was this the 1st time? No. Will it be the last? Probably not. I'm honest. I say what I feel. In the future you may not want to read my posts as they obviously upset you.
For me, this is a fun forum. I had fun with this thread. My fun is now done. Have a great day!
FYI tracy, BFF is just goofing around. i would never use it as a serious term. just fun btwn me and my BFF kelleo! LOL
Tougher skin or not, we are taught (some of us, at least) at a young age to say nice things, or don't say anything at all. By clerical definition, this is a complete bullying circumstance.
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Oh, I get it now. I completely agree with you. I didn't realize that "whore" was a compliment.
Ian, I guess if the mrs. doesn't mind being compared to them, I shouldn't take offense, I must not have the same sense of humor. I sure hope Clyde doesn't make that comparison.
Actually, she was being contrasted with one, not compared to one, Bessie. It was also simply a joke about how expensive wives are... not an actual opinion that wives are merely full-time prostitutes on the payroll. I'm not sure why you would have interpreted the joke in such a literal way, but I assure you that what you inferred was not what I meant to imply.
AP emaxxman, whore was not used in reference to anyone on this thread!!!! i have not spoken or seen that person in almost 20 yrs. so i didn't think it was a big deal. many of the other things written were directly picking on the people posting.
i guess i should never go on here if that is the way people like to respond. it bothered me a little but not personally but other people might really be affected when people pick on how they write or the topics they choose. you(meaning everyone) might want to think about that. just food for thought. again, anonymous or not you are still being mean!!!!
Anom As I've said before.... why pay for entertainment (ie: dinner, movie, etc) when you have HL! It never disappoints. Always some peculiar topic of interest!
So it's OK to call someone a whore as long as you are not saying it to their (cyber)face?
Since we're being technical about where "insults" are being directed, I didn't call you any names, implied or otherwise. I guess it doesn't matter since you're the type of person that thinks it's OK to call someone else a whore but can't take criticism in response.
hey emaxxman, i never said you called me any names. i initially addressed you but then was talking about everyone which is why i wrote "you (meaning everyone)", and yes, there is a huge difference when my question was posed about someone who none of the people on HL know and who herself does not know anything about this. i get your point but the "whore" reference is quite a bit different than someone responding to my question and calling it "stupid", saying i must have the hots for my friends ex and implying that kelleo and i are stupid!! i think you must get that. i CAN take criticism but i don't respond well to insults for really no reason other than to be bitchy or a bully!!!!
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